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Real people, with public profiles we checked and the date we checked them. A label says where someone's authority comes from. It is not a ranking and not an endorsement, and nobody pays to be listed.

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Trending voice. Widely followed for talking about dating right now. Useful for knowing the conversation. Popularity is not a credential.

Credentialed sources

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Bella DePaulo

Research and writing on single life, including people who choose to stay single and live full lives on their own terms.

Social psychologist (PhD, Harvard); academic affiliate, Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences, UC Santa Barbara · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Lori Gottlieb

What happens in the therapy room, including breakups, dating choices and the stories people tell about love.

Psychotherapist; author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and The Atlantic's Dear Therapist column · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Marisa G. Franco

Friendship, loneliness and belonging, and how adults make and keep close friends.

Licensed counseling psychologist; PhD in Counseling Psychology, University of Maryland, where she teaches · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Pepper Schwartz

Research and writing on love, sex and relationships, including dating and partnership later in life.

Sociologist (PhD, Yale); Professor Emerita of Sociology, University of Washington · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

Trending voices

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Kate Anthony

Coaching and podcast conversations for women deciding whether to stay in or leave a marriage, and rebuilding life after divorce.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Mark Groves

Relationship educator and podcast host who talks about codependent patterns, honesty, and building healthier connections.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Matthew Hussey

Dating and love life advice on raising your standards, confidence, and finding a partner, through his podcast, books and videos.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

  • Trending voice

Paul C. Brunson

Matchmaker, TV host and author who talks about finding and keeping love, modern dating trends, and relationships at every stage of life.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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