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On being single in your forties: after a long relationship, by choice, or somewhere in between.

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Single at 40Pew Research Center, 2020
A profile of single Americans (opens pewresearch.org)
Shows who is single in the US, how many are not looking to date, and the reasons they give.
Post-breakup lonelinessCleveland Clinic
How To Get Over a Breakup: 11 Tips for Healing (opens health.clevelandclinic.org)
Clinician-reviewed steps for handling the loneliness and identity loss that follow a breakup.
A full lifeGreater Good Science Center, UC Berkeley
One Key to Being Happy When You're Single (opens greatergood.berkeley.edu)
Research on how social activity shapes happiness for single people, sometimes more than for married people.

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